I love your way of thinking Kay Kay. Really anyone who really cares about you will look beyond your birthmark. It shouldn't matter if you have one or not. It's taken me a while to not care about the way mine looks, but I am over it. I have the this is me, take it or leave it kind of feeling. haha. I'm in a relationship now and love him dearly. He's so supportive and was there for me during my last small surgery. He is the best. He doesn't look at me any different because of it and tells me I'm beautiful all the time. I really couldn't be happier.