I would recommend contacting Dr. Berenstein, Fay and Waner (they work as a team) to determine treatment options.
With school and other kids: my advice is to help your child educate other students. Young kids typically react out of fear of the unknown...can come out as mean... once armed with the information they are more supportive to their classmates.. even better then most adults. I would encourage you to talk with the teacher and make it a special thing your son can educate his class about. He can answer questions...and most popular question is "does it hurt"...
Good luck and keep us posted.
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