You are very right the most is always yourself in our own ways. There are a lot of other ways to judge someone besides looks.
If you are interested I do know a couple people your age and older that have PWS birthmark.
When where you diagnosed with a Hemangioma? Most adults do not have H's. If you have had it this long it was probably mis diagnosed from a doctor that was not speicalist in vascular birthmarks. It still can be an H. Most are a PWS, AVM, or VM.
Mine is a extensive facial PWS. If you would like to see pictures you can see them at www.hankspws.com
Hope to talk to you soon.